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A Garden is an Expression of Ourselves

April 24, 2025 Judith Canty Graves
Judith Canty Graves stands in her garden holding a vase of Limelight hydrangea blooms.

Show me your garden and I shall tell you what you are. - Alfred Austin, English poet

Recently someone told me that she admires my garden because it is unique. That caused me to reflect on how my garden is an expression of myself and what I like to grow. Then I realized that all gardens are expressions of ourselves and our creativity. I believe that is true because of all the choices gardeners make throughout the gardening season. In this photo, I am holding a vase of Limelight hydrangea blooms surrounded by other plants that I love.

How to Plan a Garden

The first step is to want a garden and begin to visualize it, just like with anything else. It all starts with our imagination. We consider our garden plot and how we want it to look. We can choose a vegetable garden, a flower garden, an herb garden, or a combination of the three. That is first step.

Once we make that decision, then we consider the vast array of plants to grow, each requiring a different plan. For example, whenever I plant squash seeds, I always allow plenty of room for the squash vines to spread out, because that's what the plant needs. For tomato plants I will install a cage or stake as they grow, since it is important to keep the tomatoes off the ground as they ripen.

The same is true for flowers. In my planning, I consider their height and width and then plant them in what I consider to be a good garden design, giving each plant enough space to thrive and mature. Since I like to grow a variety of sunflowers in many colors and sizes, I plant them in the back of my garden bed because they are tall. I plant shorter flowers, such as zinnias and marigolds, closer to the front.

Consider Which Plants You Like

Years ago, when I was part of a community garden, I decided to have two rows of colorful zinnias around the edges of my plot that everyone could see. At first their green foliage was enough to attract attention, but the blooms of red, yellow, orange and purple attracted even more attention! It was fun to design a floral display that others could enjoy. Before I planted the seeds, I could visualize these handsome zinnias in the summer months of July and August. I knew these plants would do well in this sunny location.

What I have learned from these experiences is that gardeners should carefully consider which vegetables they like to eat and which flowers they enjoy looking at in planning their gardens. It is that simple. Your choices will reflect your personality and interests. Your creativity will be on display in a garden design that showcases the beautiful plants you grow.

All of my decisions reflect who I am and what I like to grow in my garden, both for visual appeal and for eating tasty vegetables. The same will be true for you. Use your garden to express who you are!

Judith Canty Graves is an award-winning columnist with a home garden in Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville.

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The Lenten Rose

March 27, 2025 Judith Canty Graves
This picture shows the beautiful Lenten Rose Hellebore. The flowers are cream and rose colored with bright yellow stamens in the center of each bloom.

I have been growing hellebores in my garden for over 30 years...No matter what Mother Nature throws at them, hellebores keep on blooming." David Culp, Author and Hellebore Breeder

The evergreen hellebore plant produces attractive blooms during the long winter season. When the earth is bare and brown, hellebores provide a welcome surprise for me as I walk around my yard and notice a cluster of green and white blooms, pure white blooms or cream and rose colored blooms

There is a lot about hellebores that makes them unique. These perennials are hardy in the cold and snow for Zones 4 to 9, plus they bloom during the winter! They are tough plants that are easy to grow, require very little care and they are not attractive to deer and rabbits. Appearing as small mounds, the blooms are close to the ground and tend to turn down, so it takes some effort to get a close look. But I feel it is worth the effort because you can always depend on them for handsome blooms and foliage.

My Favorite Hellebore

I grow three different types of hellebores, but my favorite is the magnificent Helleborus orientalis or Lenten Rose. The delicate colors of these large blooms are mostly cream and pink with some darker red. The center of the flower, containing the stamens, is bright yellow. The Lenten Rose is an attractive perennial that can grow between 12 and 18 inches tall with outward facing flowers, so it is easier to see than other types of hellebores that face down and are shorter. The blooms will last for eight to ten weeks.

Named for the season of Lent before Easter, the Lenten Rose grows well in partial or full shade. When I walk in my yard and I see a clump of these pink and cream flowers on a cold winter day, I always feel uplifted. They may look like roses, but they are actually members of the buttercup family.

New Types of Hellebores

There are 20 species of hellebores, and in recent years, breeders have produced an amazing array of new types of hybrids with stunning colors that range from purple, pink, yellow, green, white and red. The flowers can be single or double in shape as well as turn down or be outward-facing. Some flowers have dark red dots toward the center of the bloom. The variety of new hybrids seems endless.

Hellebores can be toxic to dogs, cats, and horses but I have read that they have to eat a large amount before it causes problems. Their poison can affect humans too, so be sure to wear gloves if you touch them and wash your hands carefully later. My approach is that I leave them alone in my yard and they do fine.

When you do your garden planning, consider planting different types of hellebores in a shady spot in your garden that will offer color in the winter and early spring with an attractive evergreen foliage year round.

Judith Canty Graves is an award-winning columnist with a home garden in Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville.

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Snowdrops Bloom in February

February 20, 2025 Judith Canty Graves
Tiny white snowdrop flowers bloom in the winter. Their white petals also have a green mark.

The early flowers have a special beauty. I always shake with excitement when I find the first clump of snowdrops, fragile, pearl-pure, bending their heads lightly toward the icy, dark ground. - Gladys Taber

One of the earliest flowers to bloom in the winter is the tiny snowdrop, also known as galanthus. You will see its many white blooms along a creek or a road in full sun or partial shade on a chilly February day when the rest of the landscape is brown and bare.

Even though February is always a short month, it can feel longer with the cold, wintry weather. If there is too much snow and ice, that feeling intensifies. Western North Carolina tends to have mild winters, but in February there is usually a persistent raw chill in the air.

Look Down to See Snowdrops

Occasionally there are sunny, warm days this month, so I enjoy getting out to inspect the landscape. That's when I notice tiny white galanthus flowers appearing. They are approximately eight inches high with pretty white flower heads that turn down. If you are walking along and looking at the horizon, you will miss them. This tiny plant requires a deliberate observation of looking down as you walk.

When I come across large masses of snowdrops, they are easy to see with the pure white flowers against the winter landscape. That's when I feel excited, as this flower is a sure sign of approaching spring! Of course, there are other early bloomers in the mountains, such as crocuses and hellebores. But snowdrops bloom first, even in the snow, because they are hardy.

One reason they are so hardy is that they have a natural protein in their sap that prevents ice from forming and damaging the cells in their flowers and leaves. Also, the leaves have a hard tip that can penetrate through the frozen ground and snow. Snowdrop flowers will droop and turn down during very cold spells, then become upright when the temperature warms.

Snowdrops produce nectar and pollen for bees and other early pollinators after a long winter. On a mild February day in Western North Carolina, I have seen honeybees emerge to pollinate snowdrops, so these are important early flowers.

Milk Flower of the Snow

The name galanthus is from two Greek words, "gala" meaning milk and "anthos" meaning flower. The botanist Carl Linnaeus named the snowdrop Galanthus nivalis in 1753 because "nivalis" is the Latin word for snow, so this snowdrop became known as the "milk flower of the snow." For those who have a serious interest in snowdrops, there are many types from which to choose. Look closely, and you will see differences among them.

People have been fascinated with snowdrops since the time of the Greeks and Romans. These plants have been used for medicinal purposes and have had symbolic associations for purity, rebirth, and hope. For many, they also symbolize resilience since they appear so early, emerging through the snow, as they signal the start of a new spring season.


Judith Canty Graves is an award-winning columnist with a home garden in Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville.

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The Winter Garden

January 21, 2025 Judith Canty Graves
This photo shows an ornamental kale plant with lavender outer leaves and magenta leaves in the center.

Nature has undoubtedly mastered the art of winter gardening and even the most experienced gardener can learn from the unrestrained beauty around them. - Vincent A. Simeone

How can there be a garden in the winter? Many people ask this question, but I have discovered a few hardy plants that create a satisfying garden experience even when the landscape is bare. With these plants, you can add color and interest to your yard or to your patio if you live in a mild climate such as we have in Western North Carolina.

Among my favorite winter plants is the Hellebore, which has evergreen foliage and pink and white flowers that bloom during the winter. On warm days in December, I have even seen bees emerge to pollinate these flowers. Another favorite is the Nandina, a perennial shrub with handsome leaves and abundant red berries that appear in November, just in time for the holidays. Other shrubs with beautiful red berries are winterberry, holly and euonymous. I especially like the Silver King euonymous with its variegated foliage and bright red berries that grace my indoor winter arrangements.

Evergreen Foliage

I appreciate shrubs that add the color of their evergreen foliage to the winter landscape. Two standouts are the Mahonia, with striking leaves and yellow flowers that bloom in the winter, and the Acuba with its large yellow and green leaves. The foliage on these shrubs last long after all the hydrangea leaves in the yard have fallen to the ground.

In addition to shrubs, many ferns grow in my garden. Some die off during the cold months, but others, like the Autumn Brilliance and Shield ferns, endure. These hardy plants produce large leaves that glow in the late afternoon light. I enjoy studying them up close and seeing the many spores on the back of each leaf.

There are also cool weather vegetables that can tolerate frosty nights. Kale, cabbage and other brassicas like Brussels Sprouts can thrive throughout a mild winter. Ornamental kale and cabbages come in vibrant colors. I don't eat them because they are bitter, but the pink, lavender, white and green outer petals brighten any winter landscape.

Winter Color

While most flowers require warm temperatures, one flower that does well in the cold is the pansy. I buy containers of them in the fall and plant them in pots outside. Since the winter in Western North Carolina is usually mild, pansies can bloom for a long time, providing many different colors. If the forecast is for colder temperatures, I just bring the pots inside until it warms up.

Perhaps the ultimate winter flowering plant is the Yuletide Camellia. I have not grown it, but one year I admired the vibrant red blooms with a yellow center in a neighbor's front yard. It blooms in December and will bring uplifting color to any Southern garden.

Just because we have entered the cold, dark days of winter, doesn't mean that the gardener has to give up green foliage and colorful flowers. With a little care and foresight, anyone can have a winter garden to enjoy.


Judith Canty Graves is an award-winning columnist with a home garden in Asheville. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily.

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When Nature is Out of Balance

December 19, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
A road was damaged by flooding due to Hurricane helene.

Climate change is no longer some far-off problem. It is happening here; it is happening now. - President Barack Obama

Every month I write a column about gardening and the natural world. For this column, I am writing about Hurricane Helene in Western North Carolina. It affected all of us in the mountains in so many ways, some of which are still unfolding.

By the time Helene reached our region, it was technically a tropical storm but felt like a hurricane. Scientists have said that Helene intensified due to climate change. The water in the Gulf of Mexico was approximately 85 degrees as Helene passed over it. This record temperature fueled the storm.

Gardens, landscapes, trees and towns were devastated throughout the region as this monster storm barreled into our region on September 27. Even though my family was fortunate not to sustain injuries or have significant damage to our house, for weeks afterward I felt too overwhelmed by the storm's aftermath to continue with my usual fall gardening chores. I knew what needed to be done, but I just couldn't do the work.

Too Much Rain Before Helene

For two days before Helene struck, there was a rainstorm in Asheville that saturated the ground. An additional 17 inches of rain fell from the hurricane, triggering destructive floods and landslides. Tiny creeks swelled enormously; large rivers like the French Broad and the Swannanoa destroyed towns and businesses. Almost three months' worth of rain fell in three days. The natural world as we know it was turned upside down.

When climate-fueled storms occur, they can create catastrophic damage. Forests fall, landslides rumble onto roads, and ferocious rivers pulverize towns and streets. The unnatural intensification of Helene produced a power that was frightening and dangerous. Nature was out of balance, creating destruction.

Normally, there is an orderliness in nature all around us. Different plants grow and bloom at different times, showing us where we are in the yearly cycle. We depend on the order and harmony of the natural world to live our lives.

Nature is our foundation, so when that foundation is shaken, we are shaken to the core. All our systems of living change with a storm like this, from electricity, running water, Internet access and cell phone communication. When these systems fail simultaneously, as they did with Helene, we are lost.

Intense storms caused by climate change weren't supposed to affect Western North Carolina, or so everyone thought. The weather seemed perfect here, until it wasn't. Helene proved that destructive storms can happen anywhere because of our warming earth.

Looking Forward with Hope

A few weeks after Helene, I ordered several peony roots and tulip bulbs to plant this fall. That task helped me think about spring next year and what would bloom in my garden. Ordering these roots and bulbs took my mind off the destruction I had seen. Gardeners always look ahead, so I decided to buy these plants as an exercise in hope. Audrey Hepburn famously said, "To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow." I want to believe that in the spring next year, the earth will be restored.

Judith Canty Graves is an award-winning columnist with a home garden in Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville.

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A Killing Frost

November 26, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
A decaying leaf lies on the ground after a November killing frost.

The third day comes a frost, a killing frost. - William Shakespeare, Henry VIII

By early November, summer is definitely over. There are glorious warm and sunny days in the fall season, but they are followed by colder nights and shorter days. The weather forecast occasionally advises gardeners of a possible frost, but sometimes the frost doesn't happen. Or, if it does happen, many plants can survive a night temperature that only hovers around the freezing mark.

According to The Old Farmer's Almanac, a temperature between 29 and 32 degrees is a light freeze. This will kill only young, tender plants. A moderate freeze occurs between 25 and 28 degrees. Many plants will not survive a moderate freeze. But a killing frost is when the temperature drops below 25 degrees. This event officially ends the growing season.

Watch the Forecast

During November, the daytime brings in warmth and the nighttime cold. It is a time for gardeners to watch the weather forecast carefully, knowing that the growing season is almost over and to enjoy the plants that thrive in the autumn.

These plants, like nasturtiums, do well in cooler weather. The low temperatures allow nasturtiums to grow bigger with enormous round leaves and orange flowers. In my garden, they spread over the space given up by the less hardy plants that don't survive a moderate freeze. Marigolds also hang on, producing many golden and orange blooms.

Eventually a killing frost ends all growth. The nasturtiums collapse and the marigolds turn brown. This powerful event concludes the growing season that began many months before.

Prepare Outdoor Plants

It is possible for a killing frost to occur in late October, but it will certainly happen in November, so it is important to prepare. When there is a forecast of a nighttime temperature below 25 degrees, bring in potted plants to keep them alive. Cover other plants outside that might need protection. Most of all, you have to let go and let nature take its course. There is no stopping it!

In my yard, the plants in front of my house bear the brunt of a frost. The sunpatiens, that are my pride and joy with their lush foliage and vivid colors, just keel over and turn brown after one night of severe frost. This always happens by early November, but I am never ready to accept it.

Other plants, like tithonias and zinnas, are also done and turn brown. That's when I cut them down and gather them for the compost pile. Knowing this must happen always helps me appreciate their short, vibrant season each summer because their beauty is ephemeral.

Once a killing frost happens, the season takes a turn toward a deeper experience of autumn. November hints at what is behind us, with midday warmth and color, but it also shows what is ahead, with cold nights and a barren landscape. While a killing frost signals that the growing season has ended, it gives us the opportunity to look ahead to new gardens next year.

Judith Canty Graves is an award-winning columnist with a home garden in Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville.

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Autumn Brings Dramatic Changes to the Landscape

October 22, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
This photo shows the Blue Ridge mountains in October. The trees are golden and red. The sky is blue with white puffy clouds that cast a dramatic shadow on the mountains.

Then summer fades and passes, and October comes. Will smell smoke then, and feel an unsuspected sharpness, a thrill of nervous, swift elation, a sense of sadness and departure. - Thomas Wolfe (1900-1938), “You Can't Go Home Again”


Each year I am amazed at the dramatic changes during the month of October. At the beginning of the month, the weather and landscape still resemble summer in many ways. Leaves are green, plants are still growing and the temperature is warm. Sometimes, the temperature and humidity feel too high for me.

Many flowers, such as zinnias and tithonias, continue to bloom in early October. There are lots of butterflies and bees still around. When the weather is warm and sunny, I try to convince myself that summer hasn't ended. All is well until mid-month, when changes that were imperceptible in early October begin to emerge in a more obvious way.

Changes Begin By Mid-October

In mid-October, shadows become long and dark in the late afternoon as the sun sinks lower on the horizon. As I walk around my yard, I am startled to see my long shadow across the lawn. It always surprises me with a Halloween feel to it! Hydrangea leaves begin to get brown spots on them. The leaves of my burning bush turn a vivid red. Japanese maples turn red or even yellow. Dusk arrives on an earlier schedule that accelerates daily. Sunshine slips away rapidly.

Toward the end of the month, other changes occur. Temperatures are noticeably cooler and sometimes there is a frost advisory on the weather forecast. Many plants that were dark green or rust-colored a few weeks earlier are now brown and withered. Hosta leaves turn a glorious yellow color, then dry up and become frail. The handsome leaves of the calla lily are now yellow and falling over. Ferns begin to fade away.

The mountain landscape around Asheville takes on a different look with tones of orange, red and yellow. Clouds overhead cast dramatic shadows on the mountainside. It is thrilling to see views of the fall foliage from the higher elevations on the Blue Ridge Parkway.

The End of the Life Cycle

By late October the deepening fall season is upon us, marking the end of the life cycle for many insects and plants. The butterflies are long gone and there are fewer bees. The oncoming cold and dark are changes that we must heed to prepare for the approaching winter. I cut down stalks of zinnias, okra, and sunflowers for the brush pile. Each day there are fewer plants in my garden beds.

The pace of the fall season accelerates as the month ends. Leaves drop rapidly from the trees and daylight fades quickly each afternoon. The sugar maples, which were a vivid orange color weeks before, now are showing bare branches. Usually a cold front arrives, bringing gusty winds, along with a killing frost that signals a new phase of fall as we enter November.


Judith Canty Graves is an award-winning columnist with a home garden in Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville.

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Late Summer Spiderwebs

September 19, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
A large circular spiderweb glistens in the light.

The spider's humble handiwork shows fine with jewels girdling every airy line- Louise Imogen Guiney (1861-1920) "Cobwebs"

Do you know what an orb weaver is? It is a large spider that catches its prey in a circular web. Every year, starting in late August, I notice many orb weaver spiders and their webs around my yard. When the light hits the webs in just the right way, they are absolutely magical. Other times, when the light comes from a different direction, the webs are invisible.

Orb weavers are not aggressive spiders. They will leave their web if you approach, so they are not dangerous to humans and pets. The best places for their webs are near flowers and vegetables, which attract many insects. I tend to give them as much space as they need in my garden in order to encourage their web-building activity. I appreciate their ability to capture many insects in their webs.

Recently I wanted to cut some hydrangea blooms and I noticed an ambitious spider had created an amazing circular web between two branches of one of my hydrangea shrubs. I was grateful I had noticed it before I accidentally disturbed it, so I gave it a wide berth.

Webs Can Glisten in the Light

Around the same time, I also noticed a silvery web hanging over my compost bin. It looked like a Christmas ornament floating in the air. I grabbed my camera and sat down in the dirt next to the bin to photograph this incredible design with the spider in it. As I admired the intricacy of this web that was glistening in the light, I moved quickly to photograph it because I knew how fleeting the light can be. Later that afternoon the direction of the light had changed and I could no longer see the web.

An invisible web is one that insects will not notice before they fly into it. Once they do, the vibrations of the web strands notify the spider that prey has entered the web. The spider will bite and paralyze its prey, then wrap it in a silk cocoon to consume later.

Late summer is when the orb weavers are mature and capable of spinning enormous, complex webs. Most of the web is created using a non-sticky spider silk made of protein, but the final layer is sticky for capturing prey. If a web gets destroyed during the day, the spider will build a new one overnight.

Spiders are Beneficial Insects

All these spiderwebs appearing in late summer got me thinking about how beneficial spiders are for gardens and gardeners. They are voracious eaters that trap all kinds of annoying insects, such as mosquitoes, aphids, flies, beetles and wasps. The orb weavers protect you and your plants from many pests.

These spiders are very active this time of year, especially in the evening. When the light is right, their webs' intricate details appear. If you have a garden, be sure to notice them and appreciate the beauty and ecological balance they bring to your yard.

Judith Canty Graves is an award-winning columnist with a home garden in Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville.

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Rearranging the Garden in August

August 20, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
This photo shows two large sunflower heads turning down in August with no seeds left.

The change always comes about mid-August, and it always catches me by surprise. I mean the day I know when summer is fraying at the edges, that September isn't far off, and fall is just over the hill or up the valley. -- Hal Borland

Every August I realize that it is time to begin the process of rearranging my garden to prepare for fall. It seems hard to believe since the summer weather is still warm and sunny, but I can see that certain plants are done for the season. It is time to remove them and replace them with plants for the cooler weather.

The first plant to fade is squash. This is one of the most vigorous plants that I grow. It produces very large leaves on tall stems, vibrant yellow flowers and plentiful fruit. But all the energy that goes into this production begins to wane by mid-August. The handsome leaves lie on the ground, there are few flowers and the squash fruit is minimal. Since squash takes up so much space, it is a good idea to remove it by late August to make room for new fall plants.

Many herbs such as dill and basil also begin to fade. Some of the tomato plants, which grew rapidly and produced delicious fruit, are also done for the season. The cherry tomatoes in particular, which ripen early in July, are no longer producing, so I remove their cages and pull up the plants. It can take several days to remove all the dead vegetation from my garden beds.

How I Rearrange My Garden

I have discovered that there are steps to this process of rearranging the garden for fall growth. First, I remove the obvious plants that are decaying. Then I remove weeds. But after that I need to stand at the border and look at the space that I have created. Suddenly, parts of the garden are bare for the first time since early spring. Now my garden has a different appearance and I have to decide where I want to put in new seedlings, such as cabbage, for the cooler weather.

Also in August, sunflowers start to turn their large heads down as they produce seeds. This always attracts goldfinches that fly around the yard as they hunt for these seeds. I enjoy their chirping and the brilliant yellow plumage of the males.

Late Summer Changes

Although the pollinator activity is still strong in August, I am aware that in a few weeks the insects will begin to slow down or die off. I appreciate the bees and butterflies even more at this time of year knowing that they won't last much longer. Beginning in August colorful lavender New England asters bloom and feed the pollinators.

Late summer changes in the environment are subtle but real. Sunrise comes much later in mid-August and sunset is earlier. The change in daylight is a signal to insects, birds and animals that fall is coming. It's a signal for all of us to heed as we transition to a new season.


Judith Canty Graves is an award-winning columnist with a home garden in Asheville. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily.

Enjoy What You Grow

July 23, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
This is a photo showing macrophylla hydrangeas in an arrangement against a black background.  The hydrangeas are pink and lavender.

I enjoy what I grow most when I can place it in a vase or prepare it in the kitchen. No flower arranger or cook could ask for a better source of material. - Carolyne Roehm, At Home in the Garden

One of the most uplifting things gardeners can do is display what they have grown in the garden. Author David Culp writes that bringing flower arrangements into his home is one of the easiest ways to bring the outdoors inside, "...as vital to our way of living as food--food for the body, plants for the soul."

Creativity with Flowers

Flower arranging is a creative activity for me. It is the culmination of planning a garden, preparing the soil, planting seeds, recording notes, and watching the plants grow. At some point, I step back and observe how the plants mature, ripen and reach their pinnacle of growth. Once the blooms are at their peak, I create flower arrangements for my home and share extra bouquets with friends.

Over the years I have collected a variety of vases in which to arrange flowers. I have many glass and pottery vases to accommodate a wide variety of blooms. Once I decide on the flowers I want to arrange, then the experimentation and fun begins. I enjoy finding the best vase and putting the right arrangement in a prominent spot in my house.

I like photographing my arrangements to keep a record of how they looked and which flowers produced the best results. For example, macrophylla hydrangeas produce a range of colors from pink to blue to deep purple. The arrangements are always satisfying to me, even in photographs, long after the flowers have faded.

Sharing the Garden’s Bounty

When my garden harvest is plentiful, I share vegetables with friends and neighbors. Squashes, tomatoes, okra and herbs are fun to harvest and add to meals. The kitchen garden outside my door always produces a great supply of food for cooking, eating and sharing. This garden inspires me to study recipes for delicious dinners on the patio for family and friends.

The vegetable harvest begins in May with sweet Sugar Snap peas. Once the peas finish their season in June, other vegetables and herbs begin to mature, such as tomatoes and sweet basil. By July, the harvest bounty begins, and continues through September. Everyone appreciates the taste of vegetables that come fresh from the garden.

Flowers, vegetables and their foliage are uplifting both outside in the yard and inside the home. With areas of both full sun and partial shade, I can grow a wide variety of both sun-tolerant and shade-loving plants. Over the years, many of my shrubs, such as the hydrangeas, have matured and now produce more blooms than ever.

On my kitchen counter I have a large bowl for displaying the current crop of vegetables. In the summer, it holds a variety of different tomatoes, okra pods and squashes, ready for meals. The visual display of floral arrangements and colorful vegetables is a rejuvenating and creative activity for me.

I hope that you will enjoy the bounty of your garden this summer!

My award-winning column appears in The Laurel of Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily.

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June is a Month of Growth and Wonder

June 20, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
This photograph shows four lush, green leaves of a fern plant with English ivy around it.

Summer begins now, about a week past, with the expanded leaves, the shade, and warm weather.... Plants are rapidly growing, shooting. The first bloom of the year is over. It is now the season of growth. - Henry David Thoreau, June 1, 1853

There is an unfolding of nature during the month of June. The prelude occurs during the earlier spring season, but the fullness of summer in the South starts in early June. Plants that were new and fresh in April and May now become more mature. Leaves on the trees are completely open and lush. The landscape around us is a vibrant green, slightly darker than the new green growth only a few weeks before.

In June, summer temperatures hit their stride, showing us the wonder and growth of plants everywhere. A succession of blooms open and then fade, uplifting our spirits. Even though the calendar tells us that the solstice begins June 20, in the Southern mountains we experience summer weather weeks earlier.

The Earth Feels Alive

Days become longer and sunrise is earlier. The earth feels more alive, especially with insects buzzing and birds singing daily. Tree frogs are calling for mates. Tiny praying mantises start crawling around the yard after they hatch. We see and hear the changes around us. For gardeners, it sometimes feels challenging to keep up with June's intense growth.

The early blooms of peonies, daffodils and irises have passed. Now the warmer days begin and the grass grows more slowly. The foliage of the macrophylla hydrangeas and the panicle hydrangeas becomes more lush. By June the tiny hydrangea buds of May grow bigger with each passing day. I anticipate the large hydrangea blooms to come!

Ferns unfurl their magnificent leaves. The delicate fiddleheads, which appear in April and May, turn into graceful leaves. Different ferns have different rates of growth. Some are fully open by late April, but others take longer. By June all the ferns spread their glorious green leaves; hostas also are fully grown, with their magnificent colors and patterns.

In June I watch the seedlings I planted weeks ago become taller each day. Tomatoes, in particular, have darker green leaves and thicker stems. They produce tiny yellow flowers as signs of a future harvest bounty. Sunflowers and tithonias grow rapidly and seem established. Colorful calla lilies bloom with their curving shapes and striking spotted foliage.

June is Magical

Fireflies begin to flash their mating signals in the evenings. Late at night, in the dark, I see them twinkling up high in the trees. It is a magical sight. Bullfrogs croak loudly in ponds. Dragonflies are everywhere.

Although I have seen this before, it still seems miraculous. All the changes in the environment are a wonder. The genius of nature is on display every day as the plants, insects, animals and birds grow into maturity. April and May are the months of emergence, but June is the time of fulfilling growth as a new season begins.

Please let me know what is growing in your garden this month in the comments below!

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Cultivate the Skill of Observation

May 21, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
A close up photo of an exquisite lavender rose.

Many eyes go through the meadow, but few see the flowers in it - Ralph Waldo Emerson

One day when I had no schedule, I wandered through the Rose Garden at the Biltmore Estate in Asheville, North Carolina. It was early on a spring morning with no other visitors. I was alone with the roses. In this relaxed setting, with no time restrictions, I felt like my ability to observe the plants was enhanced. I walked slowly, and frequently paused to admire different roses. As the expression goes, I took the time to smell the roses.

During a visit the previous month, I discovered a large rose bush with exquisite lavender blooms. Now, the lavender roses seemed to have disappeared. The passage of time had brought so many changes to the garden. But I found a different lavender rose bush in another location, along with many other types of rose bushes that I hadn't noticed on my previous trip.

We Need Time to See and Admire

I began to think about Georgia O'Keeffe, who wrote about about needing time to truly see and admire what is in front of our eyes. Of course it is possible to rush through a setting and possibly glean important visual details, but I prefer to slowly observe my environment. I like to take in the wider view of the broad landscape, but also to get up close to certain elements, such as the petals of a flower or an insect on a plant.

Is it necessary to learn how to observe what is around us? Sometimes I think it is. Seeing is our vision working correctly, and observation is paying attention to what we see. Observing is the act of being present, of being fully awake in the moment. We need to learn how to observe things in a thoughtful manner and enhance our ability to study details with intention.

Slow Down and Pause

This philosophy applies especially to my work as a writer, photographer and gardener. As I tend to my garden, I carefully notice the plants from day to day. I slow down and pause to study what is growing. I also eliminate distractions, such as talking to others. For me, observation is a solitary act that frequently leads to making photographs of what I observe.

I believe we can develop the skill of observation by employing all the senses, not just vision. I had complete awareness when I walked through the Biltmore rose garden, appreciating the birdsong, the fragrance of the roses, and the overall beauty of the plants in the morning light.

When Georgia O'Keeffe created her large close-up paintings of flowers, she wanted to show details that others could not see. Because they are small, she chose to magnify the flowers on her canvas in order to explore them in depth. She wrote, "If you take a flower in your hand and really look at it, it's your world for a moment." This was how she developed her power of observation. Try cultivating your power of observation by slowing down, eliminating distractions, and appreciating the beauty around you.


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The Earth Turns Green in April

April 23, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
This photograph shows different shades of green and blue in the mountains during April.

Now in April comes the real beginning of the year. Now everything is new, everything is young.- Gladys Taber

April is the month when there is a noticeable change around us in our environment. After weeks of subtle changes in our yards and gardens, suddenly spring begins to be visible everywhere with grass and leaves showing the lovely color of green that we all crave after months of a brown landscape.

During the winter, I begin to notice some plants emerge, especially if the weather is mild. When I remove the dead growth from catnip plants, I look closely and see tiny new shoots at the base of the plant. It is the same way with the autumn sedum; the new growth is there.

New Growth Appears in February

In February, the tree buds begin to swell, indicating that their period of dormancy has ended. Tiny white snowdrop flowers bloom close to the ground. Daffodil shoots emerge, standing an inch or two high. These are subtle signs, but look closely and you will see them. While it seems like nothing is changing in the natural world, the reality is that a lot is changing.

All the plants, which began to become active in February, now emerge in a stronger and more noticeable way by March. That's when when early spring flowers like daffodils and crocuses bloom, tree buds begin to open, and some leaves unfurl. Grass begins to grow quickly and turn an amazing shade of bright green. Each day the grass seems taller!

As I look at the mountains around my valley in Western North Carolina, I notice a light green tinge appearing by early April when leaves begin to open. The mountainside, which had been brown and gray since October, now comes alive and changes color. By late April, I can see different shades of green and blue on the mountains along the Blue Ridge Parkway, which is an uplifting sight.

Cool-Weather Vegetables

For those who grow vegetables, April is the month for cool-weather crops like peas, broccoli, and lettuce. These vegetables need cooler weather to grow, so spring and fall are their seasons. Of course, April is also the month when many creatures come out of hibernation, including rabbits, who visit garden beds. To thwart them, I plant marigolds around my vegetable seedlings. I have read that rabbits don't like the smell of marigolds, and they stay away from my vegetables. I think the marigolds are the reason why!

Ferns also begin to grow in April, showing their curly fiddleheads just inches from the ground. To photograph them, I sit on the ground to be close. I can see how tightly their heads are curled up. Over several days, these heads unfurl and the fern plants rise, spreading their graceful green leaves. I have ferns that love the sun and others that love the shade. They are a welcome addition to the spring garden.

April can be a tricky month everywhere, teasing us with pleasant warm days, then delivering cold winter weather soon after. But each day brings us closer to consistently warm weather and the promise of a green landscape all around us.


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A Good Garden Starts Now

March 21, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
This photo shows a lush summer garden with colorful zinnias, lettuces, and tomato plants.

The best gardener is the one who does the most gardening by the winter fire. - Liberty Hyde Bailey

Even though it is March, a good garden starts now. Winter is the time to visualize your garden and imagine what plants will go where. Perhaps your yard is covered with snow, but as you keep warm by the fire, you can still study inspiring illustrations in the plant catalogs that start arriving in your mailbox during the winter months.

Before any planting can begin, however, you should think about how to replenish the soil from the previous year. A summer of heavy growth depletes the nutrients in a garden bed. Sometimes I plant a fall garden of vegetables, so that means my garden is producing plants for three seasons and the soil will need amendments.

What Does Your Soil Need?

Testing is the best way to determine what amendments your soil needs. There are many soil test kits available online. North Carolina residents can send soil samples to the North Carolina Department of Agriculture and Consumer Service in Raleigh. The reports from these tests will reveal what specific additives your soil needs.

Garden soil is the basis for all plant growth. Good soil is a complex substance with many living organisms such as fungi, bacteria, and algae that combine with insects and earthworms to break down organic matter. This process creates a healthy ecosystem for your plants.

Popular and easy amendments to add are mulched leaves, cow manure, or compost that you can make from your kitchen scraps. I like to add organic matter in the fall that will be absorbed into the soil over the winter. No matter how you do it, preparing your garden beds with amendments is an important task if you want to enjoy a garden bounty of vegetables and flowers.

Soil Amendments

When spring arrives, I visit my local garden center to talk with the staff about what they recommend to improve the soil. There are many good organic products that contain mixtures of manure and other ingredients. Some are best for vegetables and some for flowers. Be sure to read labels and ask questions to get a mixture that is right for what you plan to grow.

Some soil amendments contain worm castings, which is manure from the organic matter that a worm consumes. This material is nature's best soil amendment, full of nutrients, including beneficial micro-organisms. The first time I tried worm castings, my okra plants grew to be twelve feet tall! You can also use worms. Some local garden centers sell live worms in the spring to add to a compost bin to help break down kitchen scraps.

I believe that gardening, cooking, and eating are all interconnected, one leading to the next. It is a joy to walk into my yard and collect fresh organic vegetables for lunch or dinner. Winter is a good season of inward activity when the earth is bare and cold, so I sit by the fire with my cat to plan for the upcoming garden season. Now is the time to plan for what the spring, summer and fall will bring.

Have you started planning your garden? Let me know what you would like to grow this year!


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Planting Peas in February

February 20, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
Judith stands at her six foot tall trellis that is covered with pea vines in May.

Peas are not just a side dish. They're a way of life. --- Unknown

One of the benefits of living in the mountains of Western North Carolina is being able to plant pea seeds in late February. Before moving here, I never could have imagined that. The combination of a mild, short winter and peas being a cool weather crop is ideal for early planting. During the winter, I look out my kitchen window at the bare trellis. It looks to me like the trellis is waiting for the peas!

Different Types of Peas

In anticipation, I look at garden catalogs to decide which types of pea seeds to order. There are three different types of peas: shelling peas, snow peas, and snap peas. All of them need full to partial sun and cool temperatures to grow well. Snow peas have fairly flat pods. Shelling peas have inedible pods with plump delicious peas inside the pod. Sugar Snap peas have sweet, delicious pods that mature early.

One feature of peas is that they produce delicate white, and occasionally lavender, flowers. In early spring, when I am yearning for new growth, I am always delighted to see the handsome round leaves of the pea plants with their dainty flowers. It is such a vibrant sight!

It is easy to plant the large, round pea seeds. Planting in late February means that germinating shoots will emerge from the soil in March. By April their tendrils start to hook onto the trellis and climb. In mid-May the plants produce flowers, which turn into pods by late May. At this stage the pea stalks are taller than the six foot high trellis. At first I can't see the pods when I look for them, but there they are, hiding in plain sight, blending perfectly with the green foliage.

Peas Are a Sign of Spring

Picking the young pods, which are tender and crunchy, is truly a sign of spring. I can eat the entire pod, or I can let the pods mature to form big peas. Either is delicious.

One way to extend the pea harvest in the spring is to plant peas that can handle the warm weather. I discovered that Sugar Daddy peas last longer than Sugar Snap peas. The Sugar Daddy plant is not as tall as Sugar Snap, but it fits in well on my trellis. Cascadia Snap peas also have shorter vines with a great tasting pod. The young pods are crunchy and incredibly fresh. I pick them right outside my kitchen and then bring them inside for dinner or eat them for a snack.

The season for peas, like so many other plants, is fleeting. By mid-June, once the weather warms up, the vines turn brown and wilt, so I try to be aware of their growth and pick the pods when they are at their peak. The reward for my February labor is a delicious treat later in the spring that comes straight from the garden!

What are your garden plans for this spring? Leave a comment to let me know!

Judith Canty Graves is an Asheville gardener with a background in photojournalism. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily.




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January is a Time of Reflection

January 18, 2024 Judith Canty Graves
A mountainside in Western North Carolina is covered with rime ice and looks white in this photo.

It is reasonable that a man should be something worthier at the end of the year than he was at the beginning. - Henry David Thoreau, 1852

It is quite an achievement to reach the end of a year with all its ups and downs, surprises, changes, losses, births and deaths. Every year in early January, I contemplate my passage into the new year. Each year is eventful.

This is the time of year most people like to reflect on what happened the previous twelve months and think about what the future might bring. It is a universal feeling. Can we let go of the past? Can we plan for the future? What have we learned?

The namesake of January, Janus, was the god of change in Roman mythology. He had two faces, one looking into the past and one looking into the future, so he symbolized time and life's transitions. The Romans worshipped him at their times of transition, such as spring planting and fall harvest, youth and adulthood, as well as marriages and deaths.

Transitions During the Year

As each year is full of transitions, it is appropriate for gardeners to reflect on the past year. There are so many changes in the natural world over twelve months that I need a period of inactivity and dormancy to absorb what happened in my garden during that time. That's why I love January, when the earth is sleeping and I can lead a more inward life.

Western North Carolina enjoys four distinct seasons, which makes for a year of constant change and stimulation. This means that keeping a garden journal during the year is essential because it is difficult to remember in January what was planted last spring, which types of plants did well and where they grew best. Even when I don't have much time to write detailed descriptions, I try to jot down a brief note or two about how the plants did. I also take photographs to help as reference.

When it is winter and I look at the photographs of my summer garden, I am always amazed, as if seeing these lush plants for the very first time. The contrast is so striking. Were the plants really that tall and green? I ask myself that question as I look at the barren winter landscape. Yes, they were!

Thinking About the New Year

This is the month I will spend time inside reading garden books and dreaming about what I would like for my garden in the coming year. I will walk around my yard with my cat, looking at different planting areas and noticing how the sun strikes them. Of course the sun will change by spring and summer, so I need to be mindful of that.

It is important to have a vision of what to grow and where to grow it. As we transition to the new year I use the time to develop my vision of my gardening future. Spring planting is a major event for me, so January is the time to reflect on the past and imagine what the next growing season will bring.

What are your gardening goals for the new year? Please leave a comment and let me know!

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December Light

December 21, 2023 Judith Canty Graves
Trees cast long shadows in the woods.

It is the life of the crystal, the architect of the flake, the fire of the frost, the soul of the sunbeam. This crisp winter air is full of it. - John Burroughs

As our gardens fade in autumn, there is a noticeable change in the quality of the light that illuminates them. With the approach of winter, the days become shorter and the light becomes more intense. Everything seems clear and well-defined. Once the sun sets in the early afternoon, the dark shadows that trees cast on the earth quickly disappear. The December landscape seems fleeting because of how quickly night descends upon us.

As a photographer, I am especially attuned to the light around me. I notice how it changes every season, but it is especially dramatic in the fall. With the sun lower on the horizon, the landscape becomes more pronounced, a result of what the poet Emily Dickinson described as "a certain Slant of light."

The Shadows of December

Some people think winter light creates a dreary effect, but I hold the opposite view. As the earth turns toward winter, I find a quiet beauty in the fall colors. December's afternoon sunlight is the most striking of all, casting amazing shadows.

The December solstice officially begins the winter season. For centuries, people all over the world have observed solstice traditions, recognizing the waning light at the end of the harvest season and culminating in the longest night of the year. Many winter solstice traditions celebrate the birth of the sun, knowing that with each day after the solstice, the days become longer.

With short days and long nights, the earth settles down, the growing season ends with the first killing frost and gardens become dormant. Many plants and insects disappear from the landscape. The natural world rests during this time of darkness. Gardeners also have time to rest in winter after three seasons of planting and harvesting.

December is a good time to evaluate the previous growing season and to plan for the next. Seeing the open and bare garden beds in the winter gives me the space for my imagination to roam as I contemplate how they might look next year.

Vita Sackville-West, the English novelist and garden designer wrote, "People who are not gardeners always say that the bare beds of winter are uninteresting; gardeners know better, and take even a certain pleasure in the neatness of the newly dug, bare, brown earth." I could not agree more!

The Winter Landscape

Spending time outdoors in the winter can be an uplifting opportunity to soak up the sun on a bright day, move in the brisk air and study the bare branches of the trees. We connect with nature when we venture outside and appreciate the transformation of a landscape with newly fallen snow.

But December also signals the time to turn inward, spend time indoors in a cozy home when the weather is too cold, and enjoy the winter season that is beginning.

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Praying Mantis: Friend or Foe?

November 21, 2023 Judith Canty Graves
This photograph shows a large Chinese praying mantis casting its shadow. The photograph is taken from above.

From whence arrived the praying mantis? From outer space, or lost Atlantis?
- Ogden Nash

I have always considered the praying mantis to be a beneficial insect that helped control pests in my garden. They have voracious appetites and eat whatever they can, including many garden pests such as wasps, mosquitoes, and flies.

Two Types of Praying Mantis


But in recent years I've read articles about two types of praying mantises: the Chinese mantis, which is not native to the United States but originated in Asia, and the Carolina mantis, a species native to the Southeast. Most of us have probably never seen a Carolina mantis because the larger, more aggressive Chinese mantis has largely replaced the native species since its accidental introduction to the United States in 1895.

There are differences between the two. The most obvious is size. The Chinese mantis can grow as large five inches, while the Carolina mantis is rarely larger than three. Another difference is the size and shape of the egg case, called an ootheca. Chinese mantis egg cases are described as resembling "tan toasted marshmallows." The Carolina mantis ootheca is smaller and elongated with a smooth surface and brown stripes. But, perhaps the most notable difference is the greater predatory skill of the Chinese mantis.

There is some controversy about whether the Chinese mantis is an invasive pest. The US Department of Agriculture does not think so, but many conservation groups disagree. Since the mantis hunts around flowering plants during summer and fall, it eats many beneficial pollinators such as honeybees and butterflies. The Chinese mantis also eats the smaller Carolina mantis and has been known to eat small reptiles, amphibians and even hummingbirds. This was distressing for me to read! After finding the remains of several Swallowtail butterflies in my yard last summer, I decided to do something.

My Experiment


Last November, after I found 32 Chinese mantis egg cases in my yard, I threw the cases into a pond as recommended on a website about invasive species. Even though not all newly hatched mantises survive, these egg cases represented possibly hundreds of adult mantises. Next, I ordered three Carolina mantis egg cases from the Praying Mantis Shop. Following the instructions, I kept them indoors in a paper bag until the weather became consistently warm by late May. Then, I carefully tied the egg cases to hidden branches of shrubs in my yard. By July I began to see smaller green mantises in the bushes.

As the summer progressed, I observed dozens of Swallowtail butterflies in my garden visiting my colorful zinnias, as well as a few Monarchs. It was a joyous sight to watch them flutter from flower to flower. I have never had so many butterflies in my yard before and I think the reason for this was that there were fewer Chinese mantises.

I will continue my experiment with praying mantises to see if my observations this past year repeat next next summer. My goal is to find a balance in my yard between native and non-native insects to create a healthier ecosystem.

Have you noticed the large praying mantises in your yard? Please let me know what you think about them.

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Gardening in the Autumn

October 24, 2023 Judith Canty Graves
This photo shows a garden in October with cabbages, lettuces, and broccoli in the foreground and many trees with colorful leaves in the background.

Autumn is a second spring when every leaf is a flower. - Albert Camus

Autumn heralds many changes in the garden. Once October is underway, the changes become dramatic as we move quickly into the fall season. The days become shorter, and cooler temperatures for both day and night bring relief in many ways. The intense heat of summer fades, so it is easier to work outside for longer periods. Destructive insects die off so that cabbages and other fall vegetables have a chance to thrive without lacy patterns chewed into their leaves.

Many Vegetables Grow Well in the Fall

By October, the cool weather seedlings that I bought at my local garden center in August are a good size. I like to grow broccoli, lettuce, cauliflower, red cabbage, Brussels sprouts and kale. I buy seedlings because starting these plants from seeds in August doesn't allow enough time for them to mature before the cold weather begins. I have always been pleased and somewhat surprised that these seedlings grow so well in the fall.

My favorite plant of all of the cool weather vegetables is the magnificent red cabbage with its enormous leaf span. When I plant the tiny seedlings in mid-August, I have to remind myself to give them plenty of space, because by October the blue leaves with their red veins spread wide across the ground. As the handsome leaves unfurl and reveal a cabbage head in the center, insects do not eat them. Even with the cold temperatures of November and December, this plant survives beautifully and the head is delicious to eat.

Another change in the fall is that weeds no longer have the tenacious hold they have during the summer. Most have dried up and died, making them easy to remove. Some weeds have been covering important pathways, so I weed these areas first so I can see where I am going. I can then extend my weeding to other areas of my garden beds.

The Benefit of an Autumn Garden

An autumn garden also provides an important emotional benefit. By early November the leaves are falling from the trees and the winter landscape emerges. While I always admire the bare tree branches, they are a stark reminder of the approaching winter. As a contrast, my autumn garden is green and lush! The large and handsome cabbage and broccoli plants remind me that there is more growth to enjoy before winter arrives.

The cooler October temperatures allow additional opportunities for garden chores like dividing perennials and removing dead plant material. I use this time to cut back plants like peonies. They have finished for the season, so I pile the removed foliage in the back of the yard for creatures that will need shelter over the winter. It is also the perfect time to install new plants because the soil is still warm but the days are cool.

In October I always feel a bit wistful because the earth has visibly changed and summer is gone, but I appreciate extending the growing season with my autumn garden. Are growing vegetables this fall? Please let me know which ones in the comments below!

Judith Canty Graves is an Asheville gardener with a background in photojournalism. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily.

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Find Your Sanctuary

September 21, 2023 Judith Canty Graves
This photo shows a bench in my back yard where I sit under a large tree and listen to the sounds of nature, including a nearby creek.

I have a room all to myself; it is Nature. ~ Henry David Thoreau, January, 1853

Finding a peaceful spot in a natural environment is important for me, as I imagine it is for most gardeners. Nature is soothing, so I spend as much time outdoors as I can. Most of all, I want a quiet place to gather my thoughts and enjoy the sun and the sounds of nature.

Your Personal Retreat

The dictionary defines the word sanctuary as a place of refuge or repose, a place where you can find peace. The origin of the word sanctuary is from the Latin sanctuarium, and sanctus, meaning holy. A natural location, such as a garden or a park, can be a retreat from the world where you experience the beauty of nature and emerge rested.

In the back of my yard there is a bench where I sit and listen to a small waterfall on a nearby creek. This spot is a place to take a break or to have a conversation with a friend. The bench and the creek are my sanctuary.

Your sanctuary can be a balcony, a patio or even a porch with container plants that you enjoy. This is the spot where you unwind and appreciate the world around you. Recently, as I visited a friend, we sat outside on her porch on a perfect summer day. The breeze was cool and the clouds were slowly moving overhead. We remarked on the beauty of the clouds, the blue sky and the peaceful setting, surrounded by her colorful flowers.

Any time of year when we spend time outside in our outdoor space, our senses are heightened. We can appreciate bird calls, breezes, water flowing or chimes tinkling in the wind. Certain visual features in the landscape are powerful as well, such as a path, a trellis, stone fences or an attractive bench. I love paths that meander through a property, leading a visitor from one garden area to another.

Express Your Creativity in Your Garden

We can also add artwork to our gardens to enhance the natural setting and to express our creativity. On a recent garden tour I enjoyed seeing one gardener's creative sculptures featuring imaginative faces and creatures on pathways in her garden. It was a joyful experience walking around her property and finding these surprising and colorful pieces of art. In other gardens on the tour I saw a personal temple area with hammocks for relaxing and a private place on a hillside with comfortable chairs.

Even if you don't have a suitable yard or patio, you can find your personal sanctuary in a public park or a conservation area. One of my favorite spots in past years was Mount Misery in Lincoln, Massachusetts, a place where Henry David Thoreau frequently spent time and wrote about. The paths through the woods and past the ponds where he walked are magical, uncrowded and peaceful. They became a sanctuary for me that I enjoyed throughout the year. Find your own sanctuary in your yard or somewhere else, and visit it often.

Do you have you own peaceful sanctuary in nature that you call your own? Share it with me in the comments!


Judith Canty Graves is an Asheville gardener with a background in photojournalism. This article appears in The Laurel of Asheville. Follow @TheObservantGardener on Instagram to see new garden photos daily.

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